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Do you have problems with relationships (人际关系)? Some behaviors (行为) will have a 1． influence on your relationships. So, today we’re going to find out what they are.

1. Refusing to say sorry

Do you sometimes refuse to say sorry, even if it’s your own 2．? Why is it so difficult to say sorry? Actually saying sorry doesn’t mean you have a bad personality. It just 3． that you are brave enough to admit that you’re wrong, and you value the other person and will try to be better for them.

2. Refusing to compromise (妥协)

Relationships are about getting close to someone else. 4．, you’ re two different people. You’ re sure to have some disagreements along the way. And that’s 5． compromise is necessary. Try to build an environment that’s both peaceful and open to healthy arguments.

3. Always putting them first

In order to make those you love feel happy, you give them gifts, and protect them. That’s all good. But do you 6． give the same treatment to yourself?

Remember that your relationship with yourself comes 7． before everything else. It needs some love and care as well.

4. Always putting yourself first

This is just the exact opposite of Number 3. But it needs to be mentioned. It’s OK you care about yourself a lot. However, when you’ re doing whatever you want to do without 8． other people’s feelings, you may come off as selfish (自私).