学进去

Success is often considered to be the opposite of failure. To teenagers, they really need the achievement of a goal or completion of something, such as good grades and the ability to get along well with their classmates. Most parents measured (判定) the success of their children according to grades. Some schools used to agree with these parents, but now they pay special attention to moral (道德的) education and character-building (品格培养) to make sure teenagers achieve success in building human relationships.

Schools give chances to students to discover their hidden ability so that they can enjoy some form of success. For example, those good at speaking skills are advised to take part in speech competitions. And those interested in arts are expected to perform in front of their classmates. Teenagers also get the pleasure of success when they join their favorite clubs.

Teenagers are often told that success is not easy to achieve and that success lies in hard work. Great efforts have to be put into project work. They should avoid doing things much later than planned. This will lead to a mountain of work which finally makes them nervous. Another good quality (品质) is a sense of responsibility (责任) which makes them remember that a task has to be completed.

Sticking to moral values is the key to success too. Honest teenagers will win the trust of friends leading to good relationships. Self-motivation (自我激励) is another quality to be developed, for self-motivated teenagers will have the strong will and drive to perform a task and finally get to enjoy a sense of achievement.