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   We live in a world with many kinds of people. We want to get along well with others. We also want to be liked by others. The following ways will make others like you.

Smile to others as often as possible

This is a simple way to make a good first impression. Your smile is a sign of kindness. When someone feels stressed from his or her teachers or parents, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds. Your smile can help him or her realize that all is filled with hopes and there is still joy in the world.

Laugh at yourself

Sometimes you can even laugh at yourself. Laughing at someone else may hurt their feelings even if you don’t mean to, while laughing at yourself does not. You might even bring a smile to their faces. It shows that you dare to do so and you’re being real about your imperfections. Laugh at yourself and you will be more attractive.

Remember a person’s name

If you don’t do this, you are getting into trouble. A person’s name is the sweetest and the most important sound in any language. We should realize the magic in a name. The name makes the person different from others. It makes him or her special among others. If you remember a person’s name, the relationship between both of you will become even closer.

Become really interested in other people

Do this and you’ll be welcome anywhere. A show of interest must be true. It brings good results not only to the person showing the interest, but also to the person receiving the attention, it is a two-way street—both of you get an advantage.

Become a good listener and talker

When people are sad or angry, they want to express how they feel, you need to listen silently first until they get calm. We should learn to listen with our ears, eyes and hearts as much as we can. Then, ask questions that they like to answer. Next, encourage them to talk about themselves and their achievements. It is a good way to help them out.